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Anything you can do,
I can do better.
I can do anything
Better than you.
No, you can’t.
Yes, I can. No, you can’t.
Yes, I can. No, you can’t.
Yes, I can,
Yes, I can!
Anything you can be
I can be greater.
Sooner or later,
I’m greater than you.
No, you’re not. Yes, I am.
No, you’re not. Yes, I am.
No, you’re NOT!. Yes, I am.
Yes, I am!
– Anything You Can Do, performed by Annie Oakley and Frank Butler
So today is going to be one of those controversial post that would probably have me in the dog house if I were married.
I start off with a simple question. Are men and women equal? I’m not asking that question in the whole, “have women came to a point where they are treated the same in society”? I’m not asking, “has the women’s movement achieved it’s goal”?
I’m asking are women and men equal? Can women do anything that men can do?
Should men be the head of the household or is that an archaic tradition based on an outdated idea that men are the superior of the species?
Let’s look at it from a couple of aspects.
1. Purely animal state/secular level – In all other species of animals it seems like the males of the species run the household. Take lions for example. Lionesses kill food and then before she gets to eat, the male eats first. And on top of that he usually has a pack of women. He runs the whole pride. Him and his lionesses. He protects them because he is the more powerful of the species. And for this protection he gets to make babies and have his food brought to him.
2. Religion – I think just about every major religion has some part of it’s moral code based on the idea that the man is the head of the household. One can only infer from that that he is the superior of the species (sorry I been studying for the GMAT so ignore how I’m writing).
Now one thing thing that the animal example omits is whether the female is smarter. Which I think if you look at the example she actually is. All the male does is protect the pride. She actually has to run a household. I think that takes a lot more intelligence.
The religion this is also tricky too. We have seen a lot of inferior men use this to dominant relationships.
So how do I feel. Do I think men and women are equal…
I let you gasp and cuss me out for a second…
This is why. I think intelligent wise women are just a smart as men and based on the stupid things we do for you guys it may be easy to prove you are actually smarter. But when it comes to physical strength hands down men win. If you couple that with our almost as good intelligence we win the battle.
Now I know there are a lot of outliers out there when it comes to women being superior, but in aggregate I think we are the clear winners here.
So this is a time when I’m asked should men be the head of the household. I think so, but let me add a disclaimer here. Men can only head a house that they are taking care of. If he is the head, that family should never worry about anything. With great power comes great responsibility.
Now when you stop calling me a pig and cussing I want to hear your thoughts. People at the Cool Table… Are men and women equal? Is one sex superior? Which one?
Louis CK has a stand-up album called Hilarious that cause me to have an epiphany. If you haven’t seen it you should check it out.
He has a section in it called… “Everything’s Amazing & Nobody’s Happy”.
In it he talks about how we complain about everything, but how we never sit back and just realize how good we have things.
I mean think about it. We complain about flying, but really thinking about flying. You sit in a plane and go through the air at hundreds of miles an hour and you don’t even feel it unless there is some turbulence. You can go from New York to California in 5 hours. In the 1800’s that trip would have took you 3 months and you were likely not to show up in California with the same people you left New York with.
I think about my own life. I complain about my job a lot. I get mad because I don’t have a enough work to do and my boss ignores me sometime. Now let me give you some background. I have my own office, my boss doesn’t keep up with my vacation time, I get paid a decent salary, and I’m black.
Can you imagine me complaining to my great-great-great grandfather that was a slave?
Me: I’m tired of my job I don’t do anything.
GGG-grandfather: Son…You’re a b!tch. Do you want to switch places?
Your boss ignores you. I have freaking overseer!
You have an office. I stay in a shack with 20 people half the size of your office.
You get paid in money. I get paid in chitlins and rags for clothes.
You get vacation time…. Vacation! You lazy M.F. You don’t even work that much. I work! I plant enough food to feed Mississippi every day. Do you know how much a country ninja in Mississippi can eat?
You sicken me!
So good people at the cool table I implore you to sit back and really think about all the stuff we take for granted and really start to appreciate it.
I know that’s not correct grammar, but I’m on a bit of rant.
Why are people so dumb? I mean seriously. I could see if this was the 40’s and there was one library in town and it was Whites Only, but information is so readily available.
I mean you can go on a computer and go this white page with a box on it. You can type whatever the heck want in that box and wealth of information pops up (for the dumb this place is google.com).
Well the reason I’m so mad is because I get tired of people asking me questions they know the answer to or they can get the answer. I have a co-worker that ask me some of the most elementary crap I have ever been ask in my life. Questions like what comes after the number 4. Google it you dumb broad!
Do you ever listen to people talk now? It’s like wikipedia doesn’t even exist. I’m just saying there is no reason to be dumb. It’s too easy to learn now.
People of the Cool Table share a story of a time you said to yourself… “Ain’t no reason for you to be that dumb.” Maybe you actually said that to them… That would be even better.
Avatar a*k*a Space Dances With Wolves has caused a frenzy of 3D movies to hit the silver screen.
I liked Avatar, but I can understand why people weren’t in love with the movie. Although visually different, it is a movie that has been done before…
Which brings me to the newest 3D(isaster) to hit the screens: Drive Angry starring Nick Cage. I was watching the preview the other day and thinking, “This movie is going to be terrible.” Then all of sudden the announcer says, “In 3D!” Then I say, “You mean in WTH?” I guess the movie being in 3D somehow negated all the nonsense that I just saw.
Basically the announcer said, “Get ready for the worst movie of the year… In 3D.”
<sarcasm>Well of course I want to watch it now.</sarcasm>
The problem with the new 3D technology is that it makes people think that they can make a terrible movie, throw some 3D technology on it, and then it becomes good. Unfortunately it doesn’t work that way. (See: The Last Airbender).
It’s kind of like a lot of rap music. Throwing a good beat on a wack song doesn’t always make it better. (See: Soulja Boy and Lil B)
Oh, it doesn’t stop there. Then you get weirdos that make crap like this.
<sarcasm>Finally, I’ve been waiting on this!</sarcasm>
Call me crazy, but watching T.V. looking like I’m having a seizure doesn’t really appeal to me.
What do you guys think? What is up with people thinking technology make bad things good?
*Also comment if you believe Nick Cage should stop acting. I think he’s has proven he is not to be trusted to make good movies.
Everyone get ready. There will be a huge baby boom from Sept-Nov this year. Why you ask? Because there are 8 inches of snow on the ground in freakin’ Arkansas… Freakin’ Arkansas!!! Not to mention, this is like the third snow of the season. And of course people are getting there bam-chicka-wah-wah on. (Cuddling weather, I believe they call this.)
So needless to say I have been stuck in the house all day because of this weather, and I have a serious case of cabin fever. I’m not a homebody, so anything that keeps me in the house for long periods of time makes me a little crazy.
On second thought, I actually do spend quite of bit of time at home. But anytime I HAVE to stay in doors it causes me some issues. As long as I know I can go somewhere I’m good.
Which brings me to today’s discussion/question? Why do we want what we can’t have?
As long as I know I can go somewhere I’m good even if I have no intentions of leaving the house. But as soon as I can’t go anywhere I’m going stir crazy.
And we do it in all parts of life:
-Jobs you don’t even want, but you get mad when you don’t get them.
-If you’re a guy, and you try to get a girl’s number, and she rejects you, you get mad. But you were just hollering at her cause you were bored. You weren’t even going to call her…lol
I believe that is why people consume sooo much. When people finally get money, they buy stuff they couldn’t get when they were broke. They bought what they couldn’t have. Unfortunately a lot of people are still left empty.
So shed light on this for me. Why do people want what they can’t have?
The daily is the new app exclusively created for the iPad that delivers news directly to your iPad for only $.99 a week. It’s being pushed by Rupert Murdoch of Fox Fame.
See, this is why old people shouldn’t be allowed to use or come up with technology. I mean really. With Cnn.com, google reader, and blogs like this one. Is this really needed?
As an African American male I understand the stigma that society can place on you without a record. I can only imagine how it views you once you have one. Most people say once man has gone to jail it’s likely he will end back up there. One of the main reasons is that he can’t find a job because he’s a ex-convict. So what is a guy to do. Well there is one group out there that is giving ex-cons (please tell me if that’s politically incorrect) a second chance. And their aptly named Second Chance Enterprises. They hire ex-cons to run their businesses. I have heard a lot of people don’t like the idea, but I think it’s great. What do you guys think?
Here is a story on their Restaurant Business….
Shouts out to Heaven for the article…
Not sure about this. Sounds great from the aspect of seeing black men doing big things. But I always wonder if there is a negative aspect of segregating ourselves. How can we ever be equal if we segregate ourselves?
What do you guys think?
Today is a repost from gregsavage.com.au. I will have to admit this didn’t offend me, but it did make me think about myself and how rude I have been. I apologize to any of you who have had to deal with my rudeness. 😉
This post may offend some readers, recruiters or not. But only because it’s going to cut close to the bone for many.
And I don’t care if I sound old-fashioned, because actually it’s nothing to do with ‘fashion’ or ‘generation’. It’s got everything to do with basic good manners and respect for other people.
So here goes… How did it get to be “OK” for people to be late for everything?
Because as far as I am concerned, it’s not OK.
In recent years it seems that a meeting set to start at 9 am, for some people means in the general vicinity of any time which starts with the numeral ‘9’. Like 9.30 for example.
People drift in at 9.10 or 9.20, or even later. And they smile warmly at the waiting group, as they unwrap their bacon sandwich, apparently totally unconcerned that others have been there since five to nine, prepared and ready to start.
10 people kept waiting in a meeting for 20 minutes, while some selfish pratt who idles his way via the coffee shop, is actually 20 minutes times 10, which is 200 minutes wasted – while you keep us waiting because you did not catch the earlier bus. That is over 3 hours wasted. By you! How much has that cost the business? Shall I send you an invoice?
And an arrangement to meet someone for a business meeting at a coffee shop at 3 pm, more often than not means at 3.10 you get a text saying ‘I am five minutes away’ which inevitably means 10 minutes, and so you wait for 15 or 20 minutes, kicking your heels in frustration.
And often these ‘latecomers’ are people who have requested the meeting in the first place, are asking for your help, or are selling something. Fat chance mate!
And of course this has massive application to the recruitment industry, where lateness is both commonplace and hugely damaging to your personal and corporate brand.
And it’s not only business.
Why do people, invited for a dinner party at 7.30, think its cool to arrive at 8.30? It’s rude. It’s inconsiderate. And it’s selfish, as I witnessed in a coffee shop near my home one weekend. Three “ladies who lunch” (a species not confined to, but heavily represented on, the lower North Shore of Sydney) were chatting loudly at the table next to me. One inquired what time the ‘drinks do’ was that night. The reply for all the world to hear was ‘Oh 7.30, but we won’t get there till 9 because by then it will have warmed up and all the interesting people will have arrived’. Nice. Imagine if everyone took that view. Cocktail parties would start at 3 am eventually.
Or a dinner at a restaurant where I was meeting two other couples. My wife was away, so I was flying solo. I arrived at two minutes to eight for an eight o’clock booking. At 8.20, I was into my second glass of Pinot and at half-past I got a text saying ‘on the way’. We finally were all seated at 8.45. There were not even attempted excuses from either of the two couples, who seemed oblivious to the fact I might actually have got there at the agreed time. Meanwhile I had put a huge dent in the bottle of Pinot, and was ready to go home.
And it is not that we lead ‘busy lives’. That’s a given, we all do, and it’s a cop out to use that as an excuse. It’s simply that some people no longer even pretend that they think your time is as important as theirs. And technology makes it worse. It seems texting or emailing that you are late somehow means you are no longer late.
You are rude. And inconsiderate.
And I act on it to. My dentist kept me waiting 50 minutes not long ago. I walked out, past a literally open-mouthed receptionist who had never seen a patient act on their frustration, only to get a frantic call from the dentist herself as I got into my car.
Sure she was “busy”, another patient took longer than she expected, blah blah.
But hold on, I am busy too! I would not keep her waiting 45 minutes if she came to see me as a candidate. And yet I am HER customer. I told her I have been coming to you for 15 years but don’t take me for granted. See fewer patients in a day if you have to, but see me on time or close to it. She has never kept me waiting again.
Me? Am I ever late? Sure, sometimes. That’s inevitable even with the best intentions. But I never plan to be late. I never ‘let time slide’ because my stuff is more important than yours.
I am not talking about the odd occasion of lateness. I am talking about people who are routinely late. In fact, never on time. You know who I am talking about!
And certainly I consider serial lateness a character flaw which I take into account when working out who to promote, who to hire and who to count amongst my real friends.
It’s that important.
My fellow nerds are you guilty of being rude and selfish? Is it really being rude and selfish?